This evening is Bruce Jenner’s big reveal to the world about his upcoming Gender Reassignment Surgery on ABC. While the world awaits a mysterious explanation about this surprising and personal choice, I would like to offer a possible explanation in advance, one which perhaps not even Bruce has considered about himself.
Seen through a womb-twin lens, I can intuit exactly what’s going on for Bruce, as well as Rob Kardashian. I can offer a theory as to why their relationship is strained now that Rob is clearly against this gender change while all his other siblings endorse it and support Bruce.
I believe they are both Womb Twin Survivors! And this is what makes them similar yet at odds, perhaps a subconscious competition between them. I believe Bruce had a female twin in the womb (most likely, 2 identicals - making him a triplet) and Rob had a male twin in the womb (most likely identical). Here’s my guess:
If Bruce is a male to 2 twin identical females, he would’ve been alone in his own sac. Could this be why it felt natural for him to create an off-site residence for only him, separate from the girls nearby? When his twins disappeared, he needed to keep their feminine energy alive inside him, but being an alpha male athlete he couldn’t admit that. So instead he finds fulfillment in marrying a woman who has lots of girl children, their union producing twin daughters. He would’ve felt natural to be around all that feminine energy but also left-out in his maleness (matching his womb dynamic). Could it be that seeing his twin daughters bond and come of age triggered an internal jealousy & sadness in Bruce, which, when combined with his switch from alpha male to beta male (thanks to his wife Kris being all business) was too much for his psyche to endure? The isolation/abandonment he felt could have caused him to fall deep into his black hole of needing his twin and all the identity and gender confusion which comes with it, needing to feel close to the girls inside him.
With no awareness that such a complex exists within him, his goal would be to remedy his sadness & confusion by keeping his dream of the womb alive - indeed, surpassing it - and trading places with his girl twin who was closest to him in the next sac. That would alleviate survivor guilt and merge him with his twin, heaven! If there was another identical, perhaps, more distant to Bruce, but closer to the other female, he could have picked up her desire to be with her twin and it would come out as him becoming a ‘she who is close to another she’ - the perfect amalgamation to recapture his original womb story. He wants to become a woman who is a lesbian, that way his maleness will be diminished (eliminating survivor guilt) and he’ll be reunited, actually merged, with the girls who are such a part of him. The alternative is so painful, he will suffer public humiliation in order to get his twin/triplet fix.
Then there’s Rob, the only Kardashian son, who has been depressed, isolated from the family and less successful than the rest. All typical womb twin traits. Poor Rob seems to have fallen deep into his black hole and no amount of money or fame can get him out of it. I believe Rob lost a male twin, likely identical - he and his father would’ve been the ‘two boys’ among all those girls, until his father died rendering Rob abandoned and grief stricken again. As all the girls around him rose to alpha fame, Rob slipped further into his black hole beta-space, becoming invisible.
The girls attempts to rescue him (with career, dieting and well-being help) made it worse because he wasn’t meant to merge with females, he was looking for his male counterpart to rescue/be rescued by…but he was outnumbered and overshadowed and the only male. Could his weight gain be contributed to this need to increase the number of males in the family, or be a way to show the world there are two of him by doubling in size? Yo-yo dieting and the media-spotlit alpha/beta struggle would only exacerbate his depression in this endless cycle of failure. Being elevated to alpha fame didn’t match his womb story, so he may have subconsciously decided to stay stuck keeping his dream of the womb alive, looking for his male counterpart. As his sisters brought male suitors into the family, he may have bonded with them as twin replacements, particularly Lamar Odom - this is when Rob seemed happy and strong enough to launch his own business, until Lamar too disappeared sending Rob into weight gain/isolation mode. Now, the only male left in the family, his step-dad Bruce, has decided to change gender from male to female, committing yet another familiar betrayal - leaving Rob alone with all those girls and no male twin replacement. No wonder he is the only child who does not support Bruce’s decision.
These behaviors are perfectly explainable and logical when seen through a womb twin lens, they may be nothing more than an appropriate reaction to a series of prior in-utero events which look very odd & confusing without knowledge and belief in the everyday life of a womb twin survivor.Now let’s tune in to hear what Bruce has to say about all this!….